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Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Kahwin awal Bagus untuk Kita.....


By Reuters

NEW YORK - Men tend to behave better when they're married -- both because marriage likely helps improve their behaviour, and nicer men are more likely to be married in the first place, according to a U.S. study.

S. Alexandra Burt and colleagues at Michigan State University also found that men with fewer nasty qualities were more likely to eventually end up married.

Among men who did marry, some showed signs that bad behaviour -- specifically traits associated with antisocial personality disorder such as criminal behaviour, lying, aggression and lack of remorse -- decreased after they tied the knot.

Burt said that married men "are just not as antisocial to begin with. And when they get married, they get even less antisocial."

In the study, presented in the December Archives of General Psychiatry, Burt and her colleagues followed 289 pairs of male twins for 12 years, from age 17 to age 29. More than half of the twins were identical.

Men who married during the study period, about 60 percent of them, showed less antisocial behaviour at ages 17 and 20, suggesting that men with more of these traits are less likely to get married in the first place.

By the age of 29, unmarried men had an average of 1.3 antisocial behaviours, compared with 0.8 among marrie men.

However, among identical twins in which one was married and one wasn't, the married twin had fewer antisocial behaviours after the union than the unmarried twin.

Given that identical twins, with similar genetics and childhood environments are likely to have the same antisocial tendencies, this indicates that marriage helped weed out those bad behaviours.

It's not clear why men's behaviour might improve after marriage, said Ryan King at the University of Albany, State University of New York, who was not involved in the study.

Married men may spend more time with their spouses than their friends, and bad behaviour such as delinquency and binge drinking tend to be group activities, he noted.

In addition, married men "have more to lose" if they're caught doing illegal activities, and may care what their spouses think.

"Not everyone is equally likely to enter the institution of marriage, but those that do enter into it get some benefit from it," King said.

The results help explain consistent findings from other studies that men who are married commit fewer crimes. One recent study, for example, showed marriage was associated with a 35 percent reduction in crime.

Studies have also found that married people as a group tend to be healthier than singles, though recent research suggests the health advantage of marriage may be fading. But married people tend to live longer, be less depressed and suffer less from heart disease and stroke.

Apa lagi? ada yang masih tak bersetuju dengan artikal ni ke?hahaha

JOM KAHWIN!!

22 comments:

Leena said...

kawen la awal fahmi...hehe

fahiraferra said...

nak kahwin awal gak ! :D

FAHMI said...

btol3...banyak faedah kahwin kan.;p...jom la kahwin ramai2..haha

fa-in said...

my lect said,research mnunjukkan org yg kawin awal lbih focus in studies. ;)

Sofia Aimd said...

ok jom kahwin! but i'm afraid behaviour laki melayu ni tak cam dorang. huhu.

Melon said...

lol~ bab kawen masing2 laju~~ hu3~~ like2~~!

aJa said...

mak x bg kawen awal..wakakaka

FAHMI said...

betol2..aku ada senior yang sebelom kahwin result biasa2 je tp lepas kahwin result selalu je dapat 4 flat.hahaha.terbukti mujarab!!;p

FAHMI said...

Sofia Aimd:siapa bilang lelaki melayu tak menawan xmenarik hati tiada sopan?hahaha..

ANATI SOKI said...

kahwin best!! hehehehe

ieqa said...

haa jom ramai-ramai kite kawen cepat! haha

FAHMI said...

sape yang parent bagi kahwin awal angkat tangan?? parent aku tak bagi..(turun tangan)..uwaaaa

Sofia Aimd said...

haha. tak kate tak menawan, tak menarik hati.. ok, cepat bangga. cume depends pada org tu. kadang sebok nak kawin tp tak ready. mane yg ok lepas kawin tu, tahniah! ;D

FAHMI said...

Sofia Aimd:jadi jom sama-sama lepas ni kita wat kempem kat orang-orang yang nak kahwin awal ni supaya bersedia dulu.. jangan dok syok nak kahwin tapi poket kering je kan?kan kan?hehehe..=D

aNnE said...

jom kahwin...hahaha..nice entry :D

Sofia Aimd said...

stuju! haha. yg penting sedia pikul tanggungjawab ;p

FAHMI said...

bila dah ada tanggung jawab dan rasa bertanggungjawab maka hidup ni xda la nak buat benda pelik2..bermakna la sikit hidup kita ni..lalala~

Sofia Aimd said...

kerana dirimu begitu berharga.. :D

Cik Su said...

nak kawen jugak.. tpi calon tak de.. huuhu.. cian kat saya

FAHMI said...

Cik Su:cuba satu hari buat2 rajin tak hingat punya kat rumah/depan mak. nanti dia tanye kenapa kamu rajin sangat ni? Cik Su dengan yakin cakaplah "saya dah bersedia nak kahwin mak"..pastu mintak la mak Cik Su carikan..pilihan ibu berkat..huhuhu

MIE-MIE said...

yg penting restu org tua....

CIK IMAKASIHDANI said...

ramai lak yang kawin awal skrg ni. sedara kwn2 ..uihhh XD

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